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| Me at 16 in the City of Lights |
I love to travel whenever given the opportunity and one of the things I’ve learned is the importance of blending in with the locals. Sticking out as a tourist makes you more prone to theft and to overpaying. Plus it’s more fun when the locals think you’re one of them. Follow these simple rules to keep yourself from sticking out like a sore thumb when traveling abroad:
I. Thou Shall Not Wear Sneakers (specifically white).These are meant for the gym only. Nothing screams “ American!” more than white tennis shoes… or those, oh so flattering, shape ups. If you need some comfy shoes for sightseeing, opt for a pair of riding boots or flats.
When I went to France in high school, I traveled with a tour group that gave us the world’s most obnoxious orange/blue backpacks. They said we HAD to wear them. During a layover in Frankfort, a guy attempted to rob the backpack right off of my shoulders and I think it was because the bag drew so much attention. After that happened, I “accidently” lost my backpack and transferred everything into a large purse. Once we were in France, when we walked into a boutique or cafe, they would speak English to those wearing backpacks and French to me. They thought I was French! Unfortunately, as soon as I said the word “Bonjour” they cut me off and greeted me in English. But for that one glorious moment, they thought I was French 🙂
III.Clothe Thyself in Scarves. Unless of course it’s 80 degrees out, then please don’t give yourself a heat stroke in the name of fashion. Europeans, especially the Frenchies, know how to wear their scarves. A simple scarf can make any outfit look complete, even if you are bundled up like an Eskimo.
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| Jessica Simpson did her research! |
IV. Do Thy Research. Before you leave, do your research on the country’s customs and dress and make sure it’s up-to-date information! The last thing you want to be doing is calling the waiter “garçon” (very rude!) or wearing Daisy Dukes in a modest culture. Just remember that the locals are being kind enough to let you roam their land so to show your appreciation, be respectful to their customs.
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| It’s tempting.. but don’t rummage |
V. Thou Shall Not Rummage.
When you’re shopping in boutiques in Europe, one thing you never want to do is dig through the racks to find your size. As Americans, we are so used to self-service and have no problem rummaging through racks of clothing (especially clearance racks) to find what we want. For the most part, when in another country, try not to touch the clothes too much and if you find something you like, ask the sales associate for your size.
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| You just might be in the Cash Cab! |
VI. Thou Shall Not Complain.
Never complain in front of any locals (even about the weather, traffic, a rude waiter you had, etc.) because it sounds like an insult to the country and its residents. Instead, compliment the things you like. I always try to make small talk with taxi drivers and one of the first things I say is how beautiful their country is. This usually opens them right up and they tell you some interesting stories (“I just gave Snookie a ride last week…”) or they may be your own personal tour guide (“on your left..”)
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| Escargot anyone? |
VII. Step Out of Thy Comfort Zone.
When in another country, adopt an adventurous attitude and always try new food or activities. Even if a dish looks disgusting just try it, you may be finding your new favorite food! Just remember, no complaining! If you order something and you hate it, do not sit there and complain about how gross it is. Instead, when the waiter comes just politely ask if you could order another dish (but be prepared to pay for both dishes). Most waiters will take the hint but if they do ask if something was wrong just quietly and politely say that you wanted to try the original dish but it is just not your taste.
Do you have any other travel tips? How do you blend in with the locals?
Good tips! I plan on studying abroad, so this is very helpful.
Sounds like fun Ashley! Where are you studying abroad?
I think you covered a lot of grounds for tips on traveling. It’s always good to understand you will have some culture shock but come with an open mind. Reading about the culture is very important. It shows a sign of respect and also it can be fun (doing the research process I think!) You learn new things and also helps you grow.
I think you can get away with sneakers. They make now some super trendy sneakers now that not just stylish but also comfortable.
For safety I always think it’s good to be surrounded with a group of people or research the area you will be visiting. for example you brought up the backpack, try to make sure not to bring things that brings attention such as certain jewelry. I’ve had someone in my family had a few things stolen from them.
Hi Hanny,
Thanks for stopping by 🙂 I agree about the flashy jewelry, it’s best to leave that at home. I know a lot of women who leave their wedding ring at home and just wear their wedding band when they visit certain countries; it’s always better to lean on the cautious side when traveling!
Have an enchanting day,
Natalie